Category Archives: Discipling Children

Resolution #4 – Disciple Children

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Discipling children is a goal worth pursuing. Children need more than learning Bible stories, and they shouldn’t stop at salvation. We need to disciple children to be Christ followers and to be a vibrant part of the church as children.

Discipleship won’t happen unless you make a deliberate effort and plan to do it. It’s also important to remember that discipleship includes both teaching and opportunities for ministry.

A discipleship plan should include the following elements:

  • You do, they watch.
  • You do, they help.
  • They do, you help.
  • They do, you watch. 

Here’s a few post to help you develop that plan:

Children’s Ministry: Discipling or Entertaining

Heart Knowledge

Signs of a Thriving Children’s Ministry – Discipling

A Children’s Pastor is a Mentor

Starting a Drama/Performance Team

Teachable Moments by Keisha Lennon

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This blog post is by guest blogger and friend of mine Keisha Lennon. Keisha and Ryan Lennon are full-time missionaries to Thailand along with their children Hannah and Noah. To find out more about their ministry, click this link.

As parents, we keep our eyes open for those perfectly teachable moments. Sometimes, they focus on character or behavior or even what it means to walk in obedience.

Today, Hannah overheard us discussing the items we needed to share in communion with our Emerge family at our weekly time of worship, devotion, and prayer.

After we finished our discussion, she sincerely asked, “What is communion?”

Jokingly, I looked at Ryan and said, “Well, it’s time to use that Bible degree.”

Within a few minutes, Hannah positioned herself close to her daddy, as he explained the practice and purpose of communion. To my surprise, she remained fully interested until Ryan finished sharing with her, but even more, she was able to explain the biblical view of communion back to us.

At times, we plan and purpose to share our faith with our children, but at other times, the opportunity presents itself to us unplanned. As parents, we pray our children always ask questions, even the hard questions, so we may pour ourselves into them.

We may be missionaries in Thailand, but our first ministry priority is our children, that they may know Christ to the fullest and reach their potential according to his perfect purpose.

Reasons To Have Children’s Church

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Most churches now have children’s church during the Adult Worship Service on Sunday mornings. There are a lot of reasons churches do this. Some are good, but some are faulty. None of the reasons are totally wrong if you have the right reasons as your priorities. Here’s some wrong reasons and right reasons for having Children’s Church.

Wrong Reasons:

Parents want to enjoy the service. This may sound like a good reason, but the number one reason you should minister to children is to minister to children, not to minister to their parents.

Children disrupt the adult service. Children’s ministry should not be a glorified baby-sitting service to keep disruption out of the adult service. Again the first reason should be to minister to children.

We need something for the children to attract adults to the church. Although it’s true that a thriving children’s ministry attract adults, that should not be the main reason for having one. If adult ministry is the priority for having children’s ministry, children’s ministry is born out of selfishness.

We want to teach children about God so that when they are older, they will serve Him. At least this reason is focused on the children. What makes it faulty is that God wants children to serve Him as children, not just when they are older. Children are the leaders of tomorrow, but they are the church of today.

Right Reasons:

Children are a part of the body of Christ and should have a worship service that relate to them.

85% of all Christians are saved between the age of 4 and 14 years old. That means our resources and time are better spent reaching out to children.

Children need to be saved, sanctified, and serving in the church as children if we are to disciple them to be Christ followers.

So why does your church have a children’s church?

Biblical Foundations For Children – Sanctification

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As we teach children Biblical foundations and doctrine, it’s important to remember our primary job in doing this is to have them apply that doctrine to their lives. A few posts ago, I said I was disheartened by the trend of life application emphasis. This sounds like I’m rethinking my position, but I’m not.

We need to teach children Biblical foundations and then teach them to apply those foundations to their lives. Without those foundations, we’re only teach children to be good. If their actions come from an understanding of God’s Word applied to their lives that will change their hearts, then we’re teaching them to be godly, to be holy and sanctified before God.

This is where discipleship of children is born. Children need to learn about salvation because when they are saved, God will change them on the inside. They need to know about the nature of God and that Jesus Christ is God who sacrificed His life for them so they can take up their cross and follow Him. They need to know God’s Word is true so they can allow it to be planted in their hearts and minds and use it as a basis for the way they believe and act. This is the power of sanctification.

1 Thessalonians 5:23 (NKJV) Now may the God of peace Himself sanctify you completely; and may your whole spirit, soul, and body be preserved blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ.

Sanctification is not a list of rules children should follow. Sanctification changes the heart and gives children a desire to follow God. Sanctification gives children the power to say yes to God and no to sin. It sets children apart for God’s holy use.

Here’s some Biblical foundations you can teach children about Sanctification:

God expects His children to live a holy lifestyle.

1 Peter 1:15-16 (NKJV) But as He who called you is holy, you also be holy in all your conduct, because it is written, “Be holy, for I am holy.” 

Our bodies are the temple of God.

1 Corinthians 6:19-20 (NKJV)  Or do you not know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and you are not your own? For you were bought at a price; therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s.

The members (parts) of our bodies should be used for righteousness.

Romans 6:12-13 (NKJV) Therefore do not let sin reign in your mortal body, that you should obey it in its lusts. And do not present your members as instruments of unrighteousness to sin, but present yourselves to God as being alive from the dead, and your members as instruments of righteousness to God. 

When we are saved, we become dead to sin.

Romans 6:6 (NKJV) Knowing this, that our old man was crucified with Him, that the body of sin might be done away with, that we should no longer be slaves of sin.

We should live our lives as a sacrifice to God.

Romans 12:1 (NKJV)  I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that you present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your reasonable service.

God wants us to renew (change) our minds.

Romans 12:2 (NKJV)  And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.

Related Posts:

Living Sacrifice Children’s Sermon

A Lesson on Sanctification

Posts on Discipling Children:

Children’s Ministry: Entertaining or Discipling

Heart Knowledge

Signs of a Thriving Children’s Ministry – Discipling

Biblical Foundations For Children – The Bible

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The Bible is the revelation of God to us and is verbally and fully inspired by God. It is infallible in it’s original manuscript. We need to teach our students that the Bible is the final authority when it comes to Christian faith and conduct. If we don’t start on this Biblical foundation, everything else we teach children will eventually falter.

So here’s what every child should know about the Bible before he or she turns twelve years old.

What the Bible says about itself:

2 Timothy 3:16 (NKJV)  All Scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness.

How the Bible Is Structured:

The Bible consists of 2 parts: Old Testament and New Testament; 66 Books written by many authors under the inspiration of the Holy Spirit.

The Bible should be studied and taken in context with all Scripture.

2 Timothy 2:15(NKJV)  Be diligent to present yourself approved to God, a worker who does not need to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth.

Both the Old Testament and the New Testament’s purpose are to point to Jesus.

John 5:39 (NKJV)  You search the Scriptures, for in them you think you have eternal life; and these are they which testify of Me.

Studying Scripture strengthens our faith.

Romans 10:17 (NKJV) So then faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.

The Bible will help us not to sin.

Psalms 119:11 (NKJV) Your word I have hidden in my heart, that I might not sin against You.

I also believe children should be given Bible studies to do at home as soon as they are old enough to read. There are many Bible studies online geared toward children. Teach children at an early age that the Bible is not too hard for them to understand.